A lot of you come to me saying, “I don’t have any potential women in my life.” When I ask about your methods, I often learn that you HAVE opportunities, you just don’t capitalize on them! Or, you’re just plain oblivious to the “green lights” you’re getting from women.

You will either get ignored or become the friendly guy who gives her free attention.

New rule: “I will suggest meeting up with a girl within our first or second text exchange.” A lot of guys think they need to a woman to meet up with them from online dating.

If you’re seeking her approval with, “Please let me know when you’re around.” “Did you get my last text? So rather than take the risk of screwing things up by asking her out, you just continue chatting with her.

Because if you invite her to do something and she says no, then you might lose that sweet, sweet attention. It’s not going to move a connection forward or towards intimacy.

And in fact, the longer you wait to get one-on-one, the less likely it is to ever happen.

Like I said above, women know almost immediately whether or not romance is a possibility with a guy. Eventually they will find someone who’s serious about moving forward.You also have no idea whether or not she’s interested, that’s just your insecurity speaking.These are women who were invested enough to willingly give you their number.You do that by having a couple lighthearted, silly, or playful messages to get a laugh.Once that’s been established, you need to push forward. Most women are in the “buying” mood while on the app and will make plans with a guy then and there.“I only talked to her for a couple minutes at the gym after her set.” “This girl at the bar was talking to me while getting a drink, but it was just for a few minutes.” “I met a girl at this event but we didn’t get past small talk.” A woman knows whether or not she’d give you her number within minutes of meeting you.