Do I have to just ignore this baggage and date them anyway?

After all, I am in my 40s and dating and I feel like I'm a perfectly good catch.

It gets you out of the small pool and introduces you a huge pool of dating opportunities.

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Neither of these are "red lights" as far as dating, and it’s impossible not to have baggage at this age – the trick is just to find someone with "matching luggage." Tips on how to find someone with "matching luggage": Easy. Without ramming a written survey down their throat on the first date, do find out if they are interested in having a family or not. Divorced and dating again over the age of 40 can be a great opportunity to find someone who’s really committed to getting it right this time, and being creative and open to another committed relationship.

If you’re a biological clock owner, don’t bother going out with anyone who doesn’t want a family if you do. Watch out for bitter divorces (men and women) who are going to bring their unresolved anger over the divorce into your relationship with them.

Dear April Masini," I'm 42-years-old and just getting back into the dating game after a divorce.

Unfortunately, I feel as though every man my age has so much baggage and I'm having a lot of trouble finding someone who suits me.

Some people believe their love life is pretty much done with when they turn 40. It all depends on how you view your age and what approach you take to dating.

Let’s get some tips for male and female singles over 40. Some guys want to know should they even bother to get online and try to find dates there. Online dating offers you more opportunities for finding your match in life.However, there are two general categories of over 40 daters: Those Who Never Married Those Who Are Divorced Of those who never married and are over 40 and dating there are two things to be aware of: Men who never married because they are too picky or looking for something that doesn’t exist.Women whose biological clocks are ticking louder than the car alarm on a new Hummer.Let women see things in your life from the best possible point of view. It can become your treasure and advantage or it can become your foe.Men in sleeveless shirts and motorcycles are dressing to impress other men, not women. Another tip is at a bar, notice when a guy has a drink covering his chest. What you’re saying is “I’m afraid, I’m protecting myself”. Spread your stuff out and take up a little more space. Seems animalistic to claim the space, but it makes you look confident.