Some men enjoy external stimulation only, such as analingus or anal massage, and other guys don’t find any pleasure there at all.A man has just as much right to his preference for certain sexual acts over others as a woman does because we are all human beings who enjoy different things.Some women report masturbating anally on their own or engaging in anal penetration with female partners, meaning it is possible to achieve pleasure from anal sex that has nothing to do with the involvement of men.

First of all, the fact that I say I enjoy anal sex should be enough for you to believe me.

I shouldn’t have to back up my sexual preferences with science, but I will anyway.

Recently I came across an article posted on the Urban Dater written by a woman who just doesn’t believe women can actually enjoy anal sex.

She even insinuates that articles written in praise of the amazing orgasms women can sometimes experience from anal penetration may actually be written by men propagating a falsehood in the hopes of encouraging more women to spread their cheeks for the dicks of men everywhere.

While there seems to be no data explicitly on female anal orgasms (shocking, I know.

Like come on, it’s 2015), many women report that ass-fucking allows for a unique kind of G-spot stimulation that can be orgasmic in and of itself.

(*as long as it’s consensual, but come on, do I really have to specify that?

) Some women do report stronger orgasms as a direct result of anal sex.

Men are held to such rigid standards of masculinity that often imply that any behavior that might appear “gay” or “feminine,” such as being the penetratee rather than the penetrator, is a threat to their very status as a man.

That’s particularly fucked up when you think about it because it means men are being conditioned to fear one of their own body parts.

I’m not sure anal sex will ever feel let’s say “soothing” to me in the way that cunnilingus does, but it is the pain, the sacrifice and the extremism of it that turns me on. Don’t judge.) The idea that only men are sexual thrill-seekers while women are tasked with the duty of either fending off or reluctantly indulging their porn-like preferences is just wrong and unfair.