You can be dating a girl and say, "Hey, want to try xyz? " I've met people who she's worked with and I haven't met anybody who's not super respectful to me. She says, "This is my man, Michael." And everyone is really nice. This is something I didn't know, but performers can't be on set without a valid two-week test.

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Porn star Allie Haze has been dating her boyfriend, Mike Adkins, for about a year now.

Mike does freelance video work and owns his own photobooth company — he has never worked in porn.

Do you think we should move forward in our relationship? The addiction is based on neurochemical changes that occur in the brain as a result of prolonged exposure to stimulating sexual imagery.

Because of its neuron-chemical basis, it's tenacious, progressive and destructive in nature.

It's a symptom of an human being and to replace it with impersonal sensual imagery.

Unless this disorder is addressed and resolved, your relationship cannot move forward on a healthy footing. It will only complicate matters and increase your pain. We recommend that the two of you get professional counseling, and we urge you to do this you've made a formal commitment to each other by buying rings and reserving the church - you're in a much better position to take an in-depth, candid look at the issues with which you're struggling as a couple.

I've been dating him for some time now, and recently we've begun talking about engagement and marriage.

On the whole he's a fantastic person, but I'm wondering whether his porn addiction is a red flag.

I was born and raised in Ohio, but I've lived in Brooklyn the last four years. I was like, "How do all these people know you guys?

She has a friend who's in the industry who's also from Ohio, and I knew her through other people. " It still blows my mind how many die-hard fans there are. And then I come to find out she's one of the top girls, and I was just blown away. You start thinking, "Is this really happening or is she just messing with me? I thought, "I hope I don't screw this up." But with her, everything is super easy.

No living, breathing, thinking woman can possibly fill that role without doing untold damage to herself as a person.