● When you schedule phone sex (or video chat sex), turn off all other distractions, get comfortable and let loose.

The first few times may feel awkward but soon it will be a sexy ritual you both look forward to.

So aside from gifting your distant lover with steamy masturbation clips, what real-time methods does she recommend for interactive thrills?

All it takes is a little flexibility, some creativity and prioritizing the time.” Here are some tips that have helped Dawn’s LDR maintain its steamy status: ● Send each other letters (the old fashioned way) outlining your latest fantasy.

● Schedule date nights a few times per week and work around time differences in creative ways.

Your lover will benefit from the sounds -- and the lack of a clear picture helps to build mystery and anticipation.” Dr.

Jess is no stranger to maintaining the LDR (to get an idea of her demanding travel schedule, simply take a look at the events page on her website).

While it’s said that absence makes the heart grow fonder, staying sexually satisfied in a monogamous relationship presents unique challenges when the physical touch of your lover is beyond your fingertips.

We reached out to six leading sexperts who share their best tips to help you keep your LDR (long distance relationship) smoking hot! Let’s kick off our column with The Love Guru Blaire who founded Six Figure Singles, a site that helps traveling executives, entrepreneurs and celebrities find healthy relationships.

Mail is one of the advantages living apart has over living together.

Sending little gifts, notes, cards, postcards or pictures to your partner (whether you're the one at home or the one away) takes only a moment and racks up a huge score on the intimacy chart.

Her short, concise advice will be a common thread throughout this article. “Web chat — sexy web cam and mutual masturbation phone sex.” 2.