Teen Question: I have a crush on someone and the feelings are so strong. LTK: If you're already friends with this person, you may fear that you'll ruin the friendship by disclosing your feelings.

However, you can't go on hanging out with the person when you want more from her.

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Have a little self control women and just stop all of this nonsense! Saying, “I love you” has become as casual a phrase as saying, “pass the salt.” My biggest piece of dating advice for teen girls, and all of women-kind really, please stop throwing these words around. Save the words of affection for when you really know, for when you are in a committed, long-term relationship..

you know, something longer than a week might be nice.

~XOXO True stories of the good, the bad and the ugly of single life in Boston.

As a teen, you're just stepping into the dating scene.

You need to be comfortable in your own skin and happy with who you are on the inside and out. Another way we women show our insecurities: stalking him on social media outlets so we can “catch him” doing something wrong. I know grown women in their 30’s and 40’s who still do this.

Ladies, please, all of human kind is begging you to stop doing this!I was inspired to write this post after listening to a group of young ladies, about 17 years old, talk about boys and dating as they munched away on their Panera salads last weekend.From my booth just across from them, their conversation went something like this: Girl 1: “All he does is play hockey! ” Girl 2: “But what does he do during his free time?He’s so obsessed with getting into a good school on a hockey scholarship that he spends all of his time either in school or playing hockey or resting because of hockey!” Girl 2 and 3: “He needs to get his priorities straight!Just because he likes some girls Facebook status, or retweets something funny from a female on Twitter does not mean he’s fucking her! If you have absolutely no trust and are so incredibly insecure that you have to stalk your boys social media accounts to ‘catch him” well you’re just a trouble maker.