When you are this person, you won’t have to “play games” and will naturally activate a man’s natural desire to pursue.

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When you bend over backward to please a man, you’re not really placing a high value on yourself and he doesn’t really have to do much work to land you.

When a guy has you and gets to keep you without really putting in much effort, your stock inevitably goes down in his mind.

At this point, you may notice that he starts pulling away until he eventually pulls a swift Houdini on you, vanishing into the abyss without even uttering “abracadabra” to give you some warning!

While guys enjoy the pursuit, they hate it when you act in a way that is deliberately trying to get them to chase you. And to be clear, that is not what I’m talking about here.

Since Craig and I lived somewhat of a distance away (maybe about 40 minutes) I went out of my way to see him when it was convenient for him.

There were forces working against us and I didn’t want to make things worse by being unaccommodating.

I am not saying get him to pursue you by acting unavailable, I’m saying actually be unavailable.

By that, I mean fill your life with fun, meaningful activities.

And do not cancel any of these fun, meaningful activities just because he calls and wants to see you.