When we went to bed he tried to have sex with me & I said no – nicely.

I said give me what I want & I’ll give you what you want.

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Of course, being official or unofficial are just words, and ultimately titles don’t make relationships…but commitments do.

So if a man can’t figure out if he wants to officially commit to me after months of serious dating, I choose to believe he won’t decide by me lingering around “playing” girlfriend for too long.

Christian Carter’s philosophy on dating and relationships is all about YOU and respecting yourself.

I frequently get questions like the one below about how to make your man commit to a relationship.

B) You have stopped cooking for him and seeing to his other comforts.

But, you are doing this for the wrong reasons, or so it seems to me.

********* Hi Sarah Thank you for your emails & here is my question.

I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years now and he still won’t commit.

Most would agree that this is one of the keys to a healthy relationship; but someone should have also put a time cap on the ‘friend zone.’ While it is usually recommended to take your time to get to know the person you potentially want to be with, is there such a thing as getting to know them too long before making a commitment? Sure, taking it slow is the responsible thing to do; but taking it too slow is usually a waste of someone’s time.