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The selfish part of me wanted him to stay because I didn’t want to be alone, and also because it really just wasn’t the best time for my heart to break into pieces.It kind of puts a damper on the day-to-day, you know?My emotional brain would freak out and say, “Hey, don’t leave me! ” Luckily, even in those moments of anxiety, I had enough logical brain left to keep my mouth shut until I could sort my feelings.
This is path to disaster, although it may not be visible to you just yet.
Just as I told my poor friend less than 2 hours ago, men will remember how they were treated in the beginning. Starting out not returning calls, not replying, promising to call but not calling etc.
Furthermore, every woman in her right senses, if she wants a man at all, wants a loving husband who will love her and care for her. He will not stop with all that nonchalance when you ask him to, - if you look for a man who doesn't need you, then you won't be able to blame anyone if you end up being an unneeded wife.
To sum up: - people are hurt if they are treated badly, it will not go away when we want it to; - people will not start being good and caring and acting interested when we ask them to; - people who ignore you or treat you without much regard don't do this because they're great people worth having so much that you should pursue them; contrary, they are people who ignore you or treat you without much regard.
Not only do they discern whether they want to marry you, but they discern whether they want to be married at all!
Many girls just worry if their boyfriend wants to marry them, but girls dating the discerning Catholic man worry that he may want to dedicate his life to priesthood or religious life.
It's possible that my own 1.5 years relationship from a couple of years ago fell apart because of this thing.
As I told my friend, skip the men whom you don't consider good enough for you, don't give them opportunity to linger and get you by sheer longevity.
But there is one downside to dating a Catholic man, a downside that is actually a positive, but in my experience can be frustrating and downright painful.