Part of my job as dating coach is to occasionally dole out some of these harsh truths. Your friends and family care too much about your feelings to tell you.

If you don’t have a strong connection with the woman yet, you can stop guys from trying to enter your group by developing confident body language.

We will cover how to cultivate this in depth in another article, but it’s important to understand that guys get intimidated when they see a confident man.

“That guy came to my house, my mom remembers him,” said Sultan Akbar, who added that he was friends with the suspect and the victims. Being like a control freak in some times and always wanting to be in control of a situation.” Investigators said Ivanov took his AR-15 and parked outside the Mukilteo home Friday night after learning his ex-girlfriend was inside at a party.

Akbar added that Ivanov had a history of angry outbursts. Court documents said that’s when Ivanov spotted her talking with another man, and that made him angry.

So as an unbiased third party I’m here to tell you like it is – judgment-free, constructive, and blunt.

Have you ever been talking with a woman, only to have another guy interrupt you and take over the conversation?Court documents allege that several days before the killings, Ivanov told a friend he planned a mass shooting.Investigators believe Ivanov had been trying to get back together with his ex-girlfriend but became enraged after she posted images on social media showing her spending time with other men.Our beginning clients often complain about other guys interrupting them while they’re talking to women, and ask our coaches how they can deal with competition from other guys.There’s no reason to worry if you know how to handle the situation. -- The man accused of killing three people and injuring another person faced a judge Monday afternoon in Everett.