That may sound counterproductive but the truth is that if you are desperately looking for a relationship it will show through and be a major turn-off to the opposite sex.The key here is to build your own life and happiness so that when you meet the right person, they will be dying to share your life with you.

The first step is to be happy with your single status but still keep your eyes open for opportunities.

Beyond that, there are plenty of dating sites full of potential dates.

The last thing I have to say on the subject is this: don't limit yourself based on superficial characteristics like race.

I know we all have our physical preferences but you don't want to forget that there are great people out there of every race.

Searches through the profiles will quickly yield results that are based on your preferences.

So if you're looking for single black Christians, you'll have plenty of opportunities to meet the people you like.Dating around is a lot of fun and it provides great experience so that when you do meet someone who is relationship-worthy, you'll know how the dating game works.In fact, you'll have a lot of success in dating if you treat your dates as a fun way to get out of the house on a Friday night as opposed to a big job interview-type of event.I vet and monitor all profiles so it's a safe place to meet single Christians online. Our free Christian singles site is Christian owned not-for-profit, set up as I experienced myself the problems Christians face meeting single men and women at church.Unlike many relationship matchmakers, we match Christians for love not money!It may seem a little daunting to put yourself into such a specific dating niche as "black Christian dating." It's hard enough to find a good date period, let alone a good black Christian date.