Feeling jealous or upset is considered stupid, since you would have never had a chance with that person, anyway.

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Years ago, Mad TV used to have a skit called "Lowered Expectations." It made fun of video dating ads, and usually had someone who was considered "weird" or "undesirable" creating an unintentionally funny video to place on a dating website or program.

I used to laugh a lot at this, because at the time, it seemed funny.

I'm pretty average, and being fat, I've been told some pretty unbelievable things when it comes to dating.

It's insinuated that if you're not perfect, you should get ready to settle for whoever pays attention to you.

If I do get any attention, it's generally unwanted, because the person is giving me a bad or creepy vibe.

Generally, this is proven to me later when they won't leave me alone, demand unwanted contact, or want to buy me a drink and expect to go home with me.

I wasn't told this by the person I went on the date with -- I was told this by friends whom I thought would listen and provide commiseration.

So my question is, why do I have to settle because I'm fat?

I'm told to "go on dating websites." I did that, and met someone that I thought I could start a relationship with.