If the world were only made up of introverts, the arrow would be cocked and ready to be fired, but the shooter would always be recalibrating and aiming the arrow before it ever took flight.

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They value things like thoughtfulness, moral integrity, and empathy over extroverted traits like charisma, or being seen as fascinating, or socially dominant.

So how does error-correction help you in your relationship management?

From all the time introverts spend doing their internal homework, they are brilliantly adept at continually making sure that they are align with themselves and living from a congruent place.

This also generally results in lower incidences of egomania because introverts are much less interested in keeping up with the Jones’s and chasing external status symbols.

You’ve likely heard the phrase, “It’s the thought that counts.” Introverts are keenly self-aware and, due to their sensitivity to their environments, are more likely to store information about their significant other (whether on a first date or fiftieth), and therefore make their partner feel more cared for.

Another common strength among introverts is the fact that they are self-reflective and are magnificent at error correcting.Extroverted conversations have the partners stepping on each other’s toes with their words…rapid fire question and response, rambling stories, and quickly changed conversational topics.If you’re still unsure, answer these simple yes or no questions: – Do people tell me that I’m a good listener? – Do people often describe me as easygoing or mellow?– Do I prefer one-on-one conversations to large group conversations? If you answered “yes” to most of these questions, you likely have a strong introvert side to you.Introverts recharge when they are by themselves, and prefer less external stimulation.