Add mention of us to the signature file of you e-mail program.

The power of this is that - with no effort from you - our name gets out there with every e-mail you send - and every e-mail which you sent that's forwarded.

These might be news groups you contribute to, other organisations online or offline.

Please be sensitive though; if your mentions are relevant and well-targeted they'll go down well, but SPAMming in our name won't do us any favours. If you know someone who owns a web site, please consider asking them to link to us. Your ISP almost certainly gave you free web space when you opened your account, and this is a good way to use a tiny part of it.

If each member sends the newsletter to ten friends - that's a lot of people!

And if you know someone who would be interested but they are not online - you might print & post a copy instead.

10: Flower power And finally if you're really, really desperate and don't mind admitting to being a bit sad you could... Picture the scene - everyone's busy working in the office when all of a sudden a dozen red roses arrive from a mystery person with your name on the tag.

Whatever you do though, just don't tell anyone the truth, ever!Ruling out, rather than ruling in, has a way of dramatically increasing your list size. Please consider making notes now, about who you'll tell, how, and when, and then follow through.I hope they'll find it entertaining and inspiring, and it will provide them with an opportunity to visit our website and join us.You can buy a professional poker set (which helpfully includes instructions) or improvise with a pack of cards and matchsticks.Put some Motown tunes on the stereo, dim the lights and you're all set.Sometimes it's hard being a Valentine's Day singleton, having to endure rose-carrying couples and rom-coms galore.