He hears: I won't have sex with you until we're married. "You could mean you like having the car door opened for you," says Wygant, but men read into this terminology that you don't believe in sex before marriage.

Even if you don't, both Wygant and Katz say not to mention it in your profile.

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Besides, "starting your relationship based on a lie isn't the best way to begin 'happily ever after,'" says Davis.

"If he's willing to hide how you met from friends and family, what might he hide from ? He hears: I don't have strong opinions about anything or I spend a lot of time on the couch in my sweats watching movies.

Much like HR directors go through resumes looking for reasons to remove you from the running, potential mates scan dozens of profiles and easily can be turned off.

A recent study by found that over 49 million people per month look for love on e Harmony and alone.

Here are a few examples of unique online dating profiles.

If you wish to understand the concepts behind these examples, please read our tips for writing your online profile.

"People who live a comfortable lifestyle want someone who can do the things they do, but it's not necessary to say that outright," says e Flirt founder Laurie Davis, whose book is due out in 2013.

Instead, Davis suggests searching for people within your income bracket (which is an option on many sites, though a study by dating site Ok Cupid revealed that people typically inflate this number by 20%) or looking for other clues in their profiles, such as similar favorite travel destinations. He hears: I've been burned, and I have major trust issues. "You're not going to scare off the liars," cautions Evan Marc Katz, a dating coach and author of .

"It's a little 'thou doth protest too much,'" says Katz.