He's not a bad guy, he may be a wonderfully kind person, but he is also a practical one.

She is not his wife, she is not mother to his children, she is not his parents' daughter-in-law.

Her chance for happiness hinges on a future that is highly uncertain, to say the least.1.

The needs of the many (namely, his family) will always outweigh your needs.

His family will always come first, and that includes his wife.

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And this cycle of happiness and pain repeats itself until you can’t take it anymore.

But why do women fall into this trap in the first place?

And admit it, you’d love a man who’s a mess, if he likes you. But when he looks towards you for emotional support and love, the same things his own wife, apparently, doesn’t provide him, you end up falling in love, more with his emotional affairs rather than anything else.