Friends dating web
We have no desire for those who are looking for those thing to contact us.
Big sigh of relief all 'round for dodging those bullets.
If a girl says that to me, I catch them off guard by going, "Yeah, about that, I have enough friends."Why give a BS answer?
Its not like they're going to go out of their way to hang out with you again.
Especially since they got probably 2052052 more messages waiting.
"It is code for...............looking for a relationship.
Many of us aren't interested in relationship/s/o live ins.When a girl tells you she just wants to be friends, there's some fatal relationship/attraction landmine you stepped on and she wants no part of you but wants an emergency exit established.When someone is "just looking for friends" they're establishing right off the bat 'whatever happens happens but I have the right to go 'hehe you're a mistake."Agree/disagree?I have, in fact, met some really good friends off here, and clearly spell out that I'm not looking for anything more both in my profile and any conversations I have with other fishies. Looking for or offering "friends" or "lets just be friends" or "friends first" usually (and always online) = "I want to control and dictate the relationship. No matter what I maintain the self image that I am a good person, doing good altruistic things, an innocent hiding behind the shield of the word friend."If a woman is just looking for "friends", its an out.I have an idea of how you are supposed to behave, and how I want you to behave. But it's too much work to actually communicate them so I will just use the handy word of "friend" which really has no meaning by itself, only what I define it as. If she dates you and doesnt like you she can always pull the "I have always said I wanted to be friends"...Plus in all likelihood you will judge me as 'bad' or 'wrong' for some of the things in my behavior limitations so I am not going to be direct with them, you have to read my mind, and know it's inherent in my definition of 'friends'.""IOW I want the power to control your behavior towards giving me what I want, but I have no desire for the responsibility and possible negative judgments. BUT, will take advantage of "dating", meaning let the guy pay the first couple of times.....