I had great employers and colleagues and although I enjoyed my work, I couldn’t help but feel there was something missing.

There had to be more to life than walking into the same building every day, seeing the same people and doing pretty much the same things over and over again.

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I instantly felt she was different from all of the girls I met while backpacking, and we hit it off straight away.

Although we went our separate ways shortly after, we kept in touch.

For Kach, everything is a potential discount, matter how small.

She will quite happily spend half an hour trying to negotiate 5 cents off the price of an apple and then perform a victory dance on upon completion of the deal! The mysterious truth It’s a well-trodden stereotype in the West that Asian women are exceptionally loving, loyal and generous to their men and this is certainly true of Filipino women (though I’ve only known one! However, let it be crystal clear that this is not the same as subservient; personally I want a relationship, an equal partner.

Kach often tells me that although many Filipinos are very patient, if you push them too far, they could really hurt you.

Of course, I think she’s probably just trying to scare me, but would you take that risk with the woman who watches you sleep?!

So obviously some of this bargaining power must have rubbed off on me, right?

Sure, I can get a few dollars off the price of some tourist souvenirs in the market and maybe even bargain down my overnight bus ticket a little, but I’m no match for Kach.

After two months, Kach came to visit me in Hanoi for two weeks, where I had set myself up as an English teacher.