We are happy to say that we are the largest Spiritual/Conscious dating site on the Internet and with over 14 years experience, we are committed to providing you with the highest quality dating site available!Our in-depth member profiles with photo albums, videos, compatibility and intimacy tests and instant messaging combined with the ability to search local and international databases, provide you with tools that make finding and meeting the love of your life easy!Instead, spend your time productively looking for someone who is available. For romantic relationships, similarity of overall attractiveness is also important.

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What if you want to go slowly * What if one partner has a performance anxiety problem with sex When Jerry first came in for counseling, he was so shy that he couldn't even look at me and could only give one-line answers to questions.

Jerry was 21, but had made only one friend in his life.

I have counseled with and taught these skills to hundreds of people seeking ways of becoming more outgoing and assertive, more confident, and more able to develop close relationships with others-especially others in romantic situations.

If you are also concerned about fear of rejection and lack of self-confidence, read my short self-help manual, Beyond Fear of Rejection and Loneliness to Self-Confidence at

People who are too aggressive, dominating, or distancing or people who are too passive, submissive, or dependent may generally have problems forming close relationships.

People who are not reliable, trustworthy, honest also will have problems forming close, lasting relationships; as will people who have personal problems with addictions or other habits that seriously interfere with relationships. One theory of attachment or love states that one's feeling of attachment to another is related to the intensity and number of positive contacts divided by the number of negative contacts (times the number of contacts).

For example, many people share beliefs that flowers, cards, "romantic" music or movies, lighting, and romantic talk are "romantic." Those beliefs cause a romantic reaction in the believer when any of those stimuli are present under the right conditions.

Someone without those beliefs will have little reaction to receiving flowers or sitting by a fire.

Or, perhaps one or both are so busy, they don't give any priority or time to meeting others. For that reason, active searching for others and meeting many people statistically increases your odds of finding someone highly compatible to you.

On the other hand if someone is not available for whatever the reason may be, don't waste time thinking about that person. The key compatibility factors that will determine the degree two people can achieve a high degree of intimacy are (1) the similarity of their top beliefs and values (their inner core), (2) their communicate styles, (3) the similarity of their interests and activities, and (4) the similarity of major background factors (ethnic, religious, cultural, educational, etc.) . Long-term romantic intimacy is based primarily upon these same factors , but it also includes the sexual/romantic dimension.

It's our way of playing cupid and keeping you informed of new members who meet your criteria for spiritual dating We offer hundreds of events and retreats locally and internationally through our sister site, Events are a great way to create life-long friendships with kindred souls and always offer the possibility of meeting your beloved! We always hold the energy for our members to meet their beloveds! Please let us know when you meet your special someone!