There are some myths out there that people assume to be gospel about dating.Christian culture is like any other in that we develop truisms that we accept without verifying.Before that, the couple has to take the initiative.

All they have to do is sit back and enjoy the ride.

This may be the biggest excuse men use for being lazy in relationships, much less finding one.

There are things floating around that have little or nothing to do with the Bible.

Most are well intended and contain a nugget of truth. Dating is hard enough without sifting through all this erroneous information, so let's debunk some myths.

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; if (! $/.test(location.pathname)) else if ($('body')Class('comments-page')) else if ($('body')Class('listing-page')) if (page Type) = JSON.stringify(data); iframe.frameborder = 0; iframe.scrolling = 'no'; = frame_id; = parser.href; iframe.style.border = '0'; iframe.style.height = '100%'; iframe.style.width = '100%'; if (!God may, in fact, have a spunky brunette in mind, and he's steering you toward her as you read this.But the Bible does not promise that God will provide a loving relationship for you while you sit around and do nothing.Some Christians take a lot of comfort in the idea that God will do the heavy lifting when it comes to dating.God will tell them if a relationship is right, and God will end it if it's not.There are plenty of them, but let's focus on what I believe are the top five myths that make dating harder for Christian men.