What’s the point of talking to other guys when I like this one guy so much? the other guy isn’t necessarily as smitten with you. That’s a guy who is seeing you, seeing others, and keeping his options open.Just because you had a great date, just because you had electric chemistry, just because you were at his place until 3am does NOT mean he wants you as his girlfriend and does NOT mean you are long-term compatible. You do not commit to someone who has given no indication he’s committing to you.It is common and natural to share a person’s connection to you when you introduce them, i.e. How does your guy handle last minute schedule changes? We’re not suggesting that you test him, but if a legitimate change is needed, consider how he would react.

Should I have the “defining the relationship” conversation with him or should I wait and allow things to evolve more?

I am scared of getting hurt and us not being on the same page.

If you’ve been wondering if you two are on the same page, here are 12 tips that can clear things up right away. But most likely he’s avoiding this introduction for a reason, and you need to know why. I’ll just make an appearance.”) Thanksgiving at his friend’s. I’ll just eat something and come by your place afterwards.”) Sometimes the loudest thing in the room is what isn’t said. Have you had the talk about how you both see the relationship and what you want down the road? If the answer is no, and you’ve been dating for some weeks/months, then you’re probably not his girlfriend.

If you’re dating a man who doesn’t see you as his girlfriend, it can be hard for him to prioritize you.

I trust him and know that he is being honest, but now that we have slept with each other, it makes me feel vulnerable and nervous.

I would like to know that he isn’t sleeping with anyone else and won’t be sleeping with anyone else while we are sleeping together.

But, we recently slept together (it felt right and was great).

But, we are technically not exclusive (meaning, we talked prior to sleeping together and said that we were both able to date others, if we wanted).

Often a girlfriend will have a standing date on Friday or Saturday night – maybe both.

If you find that your date nights tend to be Sunday through Thursday, and there’s no work schedule driving the choices, you may want to ask some questions.

She gets all excited about him, and the first date does not disappoint.