I have nothing against guys my age; I have tried dating them, but I have constantly come across the following:– They're not ambitious enough, or they don’t have a go-getter attitude.– They're not financially stable.– They still want to date around.– They have had baby mama or ex-wife drama.– They don't have their sh*t together.

I'm not saying every guy in my age group is like this, but overall, my personal experience hasn't been fulfilling for me.

This is about the same time he spends his money more freely on extravagant , replaces his wardrobe, invests in hair club for men and maybe hires a personal trainer.

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Women I've interviewed between the ages of 40 and 70 largely believe men their age are interested in dating someone their own age.

Studies show older men prefer youth and beauty first for mate selection and women choose men who offer resources and stability.

So many ladies ask me what is up with older men dating younger women.

There is actually an evolutionary psychological theory surrounding this common "phenomenon".

There have been many studies conducted exploring the reasons behind older men dating younger woman.

One of them published in the journal Evolutionary Psychology, looked at 400 romantic ads in the Swedish newspapers Göteborgs-Posten and Aftonbladet and on the websites Spraydate and Of a total of 97 men who mentioned age in their ads, only three were looking for an older partner — among men aged 40 to 59, only one out of 67.Or, Michael Douglas and Catherine Zeta-Jones, who are 25 years apart in age?In their defense, I hardly grew up dating or crushing on men close to my age group.I had a normal childhood, but I have been living in the “adult world” since I was a kid. I was around adults all my life — events, parties, meetings — so I really knew it no other way.The only thing probably missing in my life is a partner, a published book and an owned property… To elaborate even further, I'm an only child, and growing up, I never had many close friends. I was teased and picked on a lot from the kids at school. I guess that's where I began the attraction for the older man type, and it used to freak my mother out.I never babysat the kids in my neighborhood once; I couldn't relate to kids at all. I would crush on older guys when I was 13, but I really didn't start actually dating an older guy until I was 26; he was 40.