I know this was not part of your question, but it’s good information to have.

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” is a good way to transition from awkward silence to fun conversation.

This is really the top question, and you can ask it right out in your first email.

But, each person has a different opinion on this, and a different preference.

It’s probably better to “feel out” the women you’re messaging, instead of just asking if they want to meet up by default.

Take some steps to lead up to the meet up, like messaging exchanging numbers.

None of these exchanges need to be really long, but at least you’ll know she’s still interested if she’s willing to go to each next step. That part of the message reminded me of something from that book I was reading a few months ago, “Marry Him: The Case for Settling for Mr.

That’s part of what the “Show, Don’t Tell” section in How to make your Ok Cupid profile interesting and readable is about. This entry was posted on Sunday, January 6th, 2013 at pmand is filed under .

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I think of this site as the equivalent of walking down the street- you see someone pretty and if its appropriate you walk over, introduce yourself and ask them if they would like join you for drinks sometime.

I don’t want to waste a lot of time exchanging messages with people, because I think that the fun of dating is asking/answering all these questions face to face.

But each time I contact a girl, or she contacts me everything ends after I ask to meet.