A certain amount of negligence after making an impression piques a woman’s interest, it is the whole psychological framework of the type of women who wants a strong man (check out this great article on Psychology Today by Gina Barreca, Ph.D.) I started to read about this subject back in high school.

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I am actually Colombian, my family is Colombian, and more importantly (aside from my height, 6’2″) I look Colombian.

I have lived my entire life, barring the past 5 years of course, in Southern California.

For an emasculated man from the United States this is a nightmare.

Penetrating that group of friends, playing “the game” in order to get to your “target girl” is hard work, and sometimes does not work if you don’t speak Spanish well enough for her to understand.

Places frequented by tourists in Medellin are more saturated with foreigners than before.

Hot Medellin girls are not the sole reason for this rise in tourism to “The City of Eternal Spring”, but it is definitely up there.

It is not usual for women in Medellin to go out by themselves just to let loose.

Typically, very beautiful girls in Medellin will go to a bar or a nightclub in a group, and there will be guys in that group usually.

At first glance Medellin women do not perceive me as a foreigner due to the way I look.

So I do not have that instant “gringo effect” on them.

Many guys who come to Colombia cannot pick up girls in their own native language let alone in Spanish and some even have the audacity to say that the women here are just “gold diggers” or “too difficult” and that is not accurate at all.